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Budget Wedding Gift Tip

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A Budget Wedding Gift Tip

Let’s say that you are a poor PhD student, slaving away in year five of six and eeking out a living on your graduate student stipend.  Then one day your mail contains an invitation to your friends’ wedding.  These friends hustled right out the door of their undergraduate degrees and are now raking in some pretty darn respectable incomes, maybe in Oil and Gas, where the money flows as freely as as a newly tapped well.  You are now left in a bit of a pickle, because these friends of yours have expensive taste and the funds to back it up.  Their wedding registry has a lovely selection of things that are primarily well outside of your budget.  What do you do?

First off, do not sign yourself up for months of scurvy-inducing ramen consumption!  Wedding gifts are a “mandatory-not-mandatory” etiquette minefield, but bankrupting yourself to keep up with your ballin’ friends is a big no-no.  Stick to what you can afford, or a little bit beyond that, if you have to go there.  Aim for $50, or more if you can swing it.  If that’s two weeks of groceries, one, you probably need more fruit and vegetables, and two, definitely don’t spend it on a wedding gift!  Taking your reasonable budget, head back to that shiny-object-filled gift registry.

Here is where I give 110% credit to Simone Eastman, who wrote a post called Off-the Registry Wedding Gifts that Keep on Giving.  In it, she puts forth a brilliant idea, which I am going give a rousing second:

Select a wedding registry gift from the more affordable end of the list, and get a unique version instead.

“Huh?” you say.  Many people are upgrading their stuff, or expanding their collection into newer, bigger and better.  Maybe they picked out a $10 can opener.  That’s perfect.  As long as it is not a part of a set (double check, or use your judgement to determine that one piece which is different will be fine), seek out a better version. For a can opener, get an OXO Good Grips Smooth Edge Can Opener instead.  For a cutting board, see what you can find on Etsy.

To really spice things up, try buying designer versions, like those available from the MoMA Store.  (This is still Simone’s idea.)  Pop over to your local museum, art and design school, artist studio or funky retailer.  This is even better because you get to support local artisans!  Make sure that you stick to what your friends’ would like.  You can tie these gifts into a special memory, sometimes.  Were you roommates with someone who lived off of Campbell’s tomato soup in university?  Perfect!  Pick up a can (or five, if they still want to see it) of the soup, a fancy can opener and bam! You have a personal, memorable, budget wedding gift.

Once you have purchased your one or two “fancy, unique, designer” versions, be sure to call the store with the registry and have those items marked off as purchased!  (This part is important!)

What budget wedding gift tips do you have for giving fun, memorable gifts you can afford?

[Photo – Creative Commons Attribution – kevin dooley]

6 thoughts on “Budget Wedding Gift Tip”

    1. Anne - Unique Gifter

      I got my spouse hooked on Etsy… it's dangerous sometimes!

  1. I don't think I can afford to have a creative or personal wedding gifts (because I'm not that creative in creating fancy thngs lol). I might prefer shopping and look for a cheap but good quality items that can be wedding gift.

  2. Connie @ Mouse Dolls

    One must always present a gift that they can afford. Spending mindlessly behind a gift is not good idea. There are thousands of affordable wedding gift ideas that can make the same impression on the recipient as the expensive ones. Great post, Anne!

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